5 Little Tricks to Seducing A Younger Man

Dating younger men is not the taboo it once used to be: in fact, it’s completely par for the course. Couplings between younger men and older women are not only commonplace in the public eye – think Madonna and her boy toys, Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon, Robin Wright & Ben Foster – they’re super-hot.

It has less to do with the influence of “Mommy Dearest” and more to do with the fact that older women are hot property these days. They’ve never been more successful, more in control, more sexually liberated and more powerful than they are today. And the men who are attracted to them are, contrary to popular stereotypes, not just little boys with mommy-fantasies.

They’re grown men who know that what an older woman has to offer them is way more than simple physical pleasure. In the same way, women who are attracted to younger men find in them a man willing to be patient and accommodating of her desires and wishes, celebrating her and her life along the way. Oh, and the sex is usually mind-bogglingly hot.

If you’ve got your eye on a younger man, here are 5 neat tricks to start the dance of seduction off on the right foot.

1. Highlight Your Best Features

Look at it this way: you’ve been with yourself for a really long time. You’ve seen yourself through plenty of men and even more ups and downs of life. In this sense, you’ve got a home-court advantage: you know exactly what your best features are.

Maybe it’s your hair that men love to run their fingers through. Or perhaps you’ve got gorgeous eyes and twinkle in the dark. Or maybe your sharp cheekbones could cut glass. Or you have an incredible laugh. Spend some time with yourself and be honest as you look into the mirror: what are your best features? Capitalize off of those.

Younger women aren’t as prone to being brutally honest with themselves as you’re willing to be. This is definitely one of the unspoken reasons why younger men love dating cougars so much. So use your self-awareness to your advantage.

2. See Him When It Suits You

Let’s get one thing very straight here: seeing people when it works best for you does not make you high-maintenance or conceited. It simply makes you a woman who prioritizes herself and knows what she’s able to do – and what she won’t compromise on.

If you have a tight schedule, don’t bother bending over backwards to get him to see you or to see him yourself. Let him come to you. You don’t have to be an emasculating ice queen – you simply have to be firm and strong, knowing what your non-negotiables are.

The interesting thing is that this intrigues younger men and gets them to respond with much more force of emotion than they normally might.

3. Dress To Impress

As you age gracefully into your more mature years, you know what works with your body type and what doesn’t. This extends way past the simple knowledge of what your body type is and moves into catually being able to embrace your body type.

See, this is one of the thing secret things men rarely attest to out loud but it’s a shared sentiment amongst almost all of them: the amount of time younger women put into covering up their body,. Feeling ashamed about it or just wearing things that are plainly inappropriate for their body type is something that is supremely off-putting.

As an older woman, you not only have come to terms with your body you’ve learned to love it and that means adorning it in the right ways, playing up your body type with the right clothes. Got some crazy curves? Show them off. Have slim, toned arms? Wear sleeveless shirts as much as possible. The truth is that you get to show your younger lover how you’d like to be treated – and they’re only too eager to follow.

4. Flaunt Your Success

You’ve worked for many years of your life to get where you are so now is the moment you can finally enjoy it. If you’re trying to seduce an older man, you know you won’t have to try too hard to let your success shine. It’s definitely one of the reasons he’s attracted to you in the first place.

A woman who has a successful career in place, even if it’s not a position of leadership, as long as it’s something she’s passionate about and loves, is a huge turn-on for younger men. They feel as though they are successful by association. And the confidence that this knowledge instills in you is incredibly sexy to them.

Because younger women are so much less sure of everything, as they’re still making their way through their youth, you get to showcase your security and stability. It also means that there’s an element of power and intrigue. Younger men know that you could have anyone you want – and yet you chose them! So lead with the knowledge and do a little subtle “success-sharing” when you meet up.

5. Make Love With Wild Abandon

Without a doubt, the number one reason why younger men are so easily seduced by and drawn to older women is their sexual abandon. It’s not that older women are hornier than younger women or that they want more sex more of the time. As an older woman, the power of your sex is in how deeply you can enjoy it and how much you can let yourself go while having sex.

Older women are not only more connected to their bodies, they’re also more experienced and willing to be connected – emotionally and physically – to their lover. If you’re looking to seduce an older man, you should know that they find the way an older woman owns herself and asks for what she wants, asserting her own needs, incredibly sexy.

You want to be able to let go and give in to your sexual desires. Share your fantasies with him and he’ll gladly act it out for you. You don’t need to be absolute and dictate the rules – let him feel like a man. The best way to do this is to tell him exactly what you want because you already know what and where your body responds to the most. Older women are willing to go places that make a younger woman squeamish. Know this, use it and your younger man will ravage you for days on end.

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