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10 Reasons To Date An Older Woman

Forget Mrs. Robinson and The Graduate trope for a second here. More and more men are choosing to be with older women because they end up falling for these seductive and strong creatures.

sensual blonde older woman sitting by the window topless
Older women think of sex as both a dance and a chase.

Oftentimes, they’re attracted to the mystery and sexual appeal of these women, along with their emotional intelligence and ability to navigate life.

But it’s not until later, maybe on their first or second date, that they realize that the object of their very real desires is quite a bit older than them.

By this point though, most men will tell you, they’re unable to resist these women’s quite unconscious but undeniable charms.

After talking to many men who enjoyed everything from NSA sex and casual hookups to short term flings and even long-term relationships, there are reasons why no one can be immune to dating and having sex with older women.

Here’s what they had to say: “Older women are…”

#1 Sexually Powerful

Yes, women can be sexually powerful without being proverbial “ballbusters” or being “too masculine” — and no one has mastered this better than older women.

To be a sexually powerful female while still being feminine takes a whole score of years to perfect — which is why only older women can pull this off.

Being sexually powerful means that these women not only know what they want, they know what their men want. To them, sex is both a dance and a chase at the same time.

And they can show you the moves.

#2 Have More Time To Play

sexy older woman with a great fit body
They just want to have the sexual allure.

Older women have reached a certain pinnacle in their careers — professionally speaking, they don’t have to work as hard, as often, if they don’t want to.

That’s what their 20’s and early 30’s were for. And this really gives them a fun, easygoing and playful nature and calm to their overall life and affairs.

Of course, this ease extends to the bedroom. They're more willing to explore with their partners and ease into enjoying themselves more fully — which many men say they find an incredible turn on.

#3 Have Shed Their Insecurities

Again, unlike their younger counterparts, older women are neither ashamed of their body nor do they feel the need to cover up any longer. They’ve been naked enough times in front of enough men to know that it doesn’t matter a bit. And, they're more relaxed and in-control life pace allows them to hit the gym 4 or 5 times a week.

So, chances are... that older honey you’ve just snagged? She could outrun that 25 year old bag of bones you met last night!

Want to know the best part?... She’s got a real woman’s curves for you to enjoy!

#4 Are Rollin’ In The Deep

It should come as no surprise that, sometimes, older women can be sugar mamas. They’re in higher-paying positions and this may not leave a lot of time for dating and romance.

Ample money along with a lack of sex life and a skyrocketing libido can mean that many opportunities to hook up and have sex with these women can result in some extra perks on the side.

If this is your situation, don’t take offence — just take her attentions and her lavish gifts and live it up. She wants to spoil you silly and this is part of the sexual allure for her.

#5 Don’t Care About Experience As Much As Open-Mindedness

Look, here’s the bottom line: older women have seen it all and they’ve pretty much experienced sex in every which way they can.

Even if they’ve only dated a couple of people, they’ve had enough long-term relationships to have been through heartbreaks and maybe even divorces.

They’ve learned two important lessons that you need to catch on to if you want to stay with them:

  • First off, nothing fazes them!
  • Secondly,they don’t judge.

So it comes as no surprise that they don’t like to be judged.

When you come into their boudoir, there’s no need to feel intimidated. Just stay in the moment and enjoy the sensation and sensual pleasure of sex together, like they do.

#6 Have Mastered Their Money

Usually, milfs looking for younger guys are seen as such because of their self-sufficiency. They can not only fend for themselves, they want to.

Which means that every time she allows you to shower her with something, she’s doing so because she knows it’ will make you feel like a man. Now that’s an emotionally intelligent women. While there are definitely such things as sloppy older women, most of these creatures who are in charge of their finances have the same kind of power in the rest of their lives.

#7 Are Nurturing and Daring At The Same Time

Likely, the older women you’re dating and having sex with have families, kids or used to have significant others.

Maybe they still do and they’re in an open relationship. No matter what their domestic situation, these women don’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone. They know that part of being female is to be a nurturer — so they embrace this aspect of their personality.

This means she’ll not only close the libido gap and match your every move, stroke for stroke. She’ll also be an excellent post-coital sex companion — one who will listen to you and make you feel like the center of the universe.

At the same time, her self-confidence — which is, in itself, entirely sexy — means that she is daring and not afraid to ask for what she wants, telling you how she likes it and to guide you like a good mistress would.

#8 Can Talk The Talk

There are no games with these women — or, rather, there are no games with these women where one party (you) doesn’t know where it’s going.

The chase is definitely half the fun and older women do everything they can to keep the mystery and spark alive.

That’s why so many men love to be with them. They always follow up and put their money where their mouth is, so to speak.

hot mature woman enjoying the sun
There are no games with these women- Just enjoy!

#9 Will Try Anything Once

Right along up there with being open-minded and sexually powerful is the advantage that older women have of saying yes to trying anything once.

Have an idea for some bedroom kink that has made your other partners squeamish in the past? If you have an open conversation and communicate your needs like an adult to your older woman, chances are, she’ll be delighted to indulge them.

She knows that fantasies are a healthy part of sexual expression and she loves to play. Plus, her incredible libido makes her hot and horny as anything so even if she doesn’t exactly prefer it, she knows you’ll have the rest of the night to make it up to her.

10. Are Like A Fine Vintage Wine

There’s only one true way to view older women: like a fine vintage wine that grows stronger and better with age.

As the years grow on them, older women learn how to embrace their natural beauty and enhance what they already have. They are incredible stars in bed and in life.

No wonder they call it the "Golden Years"!

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